When we love him..

Rasa cam jahat pulak nak buat taktau ja kat kawan kita bila dia ada prob. Salu klau orang perempuan, dia akan tanya kawan dia tuh "aper prob" dan sebagainya, n we give advices and sometimes solutions untuk kawan kita. Tapi ngan laki lain plak halnye ekk...huhu...Patutla, kadang-kadang kita wat taktau ja kat laki-laki sekalian, tapi depa keep on cari kita, n untuk laki2 yang diberi perhatian, kadang2 semakin jauh plak dari kita....

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"One of the biggest differences between men and women is how they cope with stress. Men become increasingly focused and withdrawn while women become increasingly overwhelmed and emotionally involved. At these times, a man's needs for feeling good are different from a woman's. He feels better by solving problems while she feels better by talking about problems. Not understanding and accepting differences creates unnecessary friction in our relationships. "
"When a man is stresses he will withdraw into the cave of his mind and focus on solving a problem. He generally picks the most urgent problem or the most difficult. He becomes so focused on solving this one problem that he temporarily loses awareness of everything else. Other problems and responsibilities fade into the background"-Men are from Mars , Women are from Venus-

Sekarang baru ada masa balik nak baca sumer buku-buku yang I have interest for, yang dulunya tak sempat dibaca sebab kena baca menda-menda lain. Buku Men are from Mars Women are from Venus ni kelakar la, rasa cam "eh, betul ke laki camni, ish pelik la" Buku ini telah menjawab kepelikan-kepelikan yang muncul di benak fikiran tentang lelaki.Bila baca buku ni, n relate2 balik to some conditions, betul la..ada kebenarannya..Adus, ciptaan Allah sememangnya unik...Bagi lelaki yang rasa perempuan ni cam pelik n cam susah nak handle, baca la buku ni...For me, for most of the menda-menda yang penulis ni cakap tentang perempuan memang kena sebijik kat batang hidung..hehe.....